My first Wedding Dress

I cannot quite believe this myself yet; that I have eventually been able to execute an entire wedding dress, veil and all.

This wedding dress that I finally had the opportunity to make had been a promise since Grade9 by a friend and classmate.  Of course only said as a teen promise; never knowing we were sowing a seed for the future.

The one thing we both were sure of was that it would have some bling.  The bride is a lover of all things that shine, more so than all other ladies I know.  We also knew it had to be the most dazzling dress to execute the most beautiful bride ever.

The commencement date was agreed as June 2012 but of course as life always has it we finally started in September.  After searching for the correct shade, shine and price for the lace to be draped over the duchess.

I personally spent approximately 2months building up the guts and strength to finally take on this major task.  Wedding dresses are more stressful as they are so close to the bride's heart, and are one of the major main attractions at the wedding, and in this case it was for a friend for a promise made when I was only 14 years old.

I kept the dress with me for a week before finally reporting that is was completed, again wanting to ensure perfection.  Then completed the veil.

The dress is a fishtail design; with a lace draped over the bodice and a full tulle skirt.  It is lined, boned, and has a base of duchess.  The finishings include pearl buttons along the zip line at the centre back, the actual dress ending on the strapless dress line, the lace continuing to the shoulders exposing them, veiling over the tulle skirt, a diamante comb holding the extra long at the back- but short in the front veil.

I want to thank God for this opportunity and I truly believe it will bring me more blessings; I also want to thank Mrs. Daphne P Zulu for the opportunity and trust she put in my hands and ability as a new designer with most probably the biggest day of her life.

So don't hesitate to contact me for your wedding dress! Bridesmaid dresses and within a year I will be demanding your groom's suit orders too.

With love
Brigette

Hot Right Now!

 If you haven’t watched television or read magazines or drive with your eyes closed then you will not recognise any of the following points I’m about to rave about; the hot new things in fashion closest to my heart.

The Peplum

I was introduced to this word in 1^st year fashion school; and fell in love with it before I knew what is was exactly.  It is simply a flared piece added to a dress, skirt or top at any point to create some flirtyness and femininity to a piece.   The best position for most South African ladies it the waistline so that it falls just where our behinds start; giving you a stunning shape from the back. 

                                                         

Green

Yes that almost too bright and also not dark green….I think its grass green.  I believe it is the new petrol blue.  It is bold and the right colour for the environment *wink* So don’t be stubborn, go green on everything: shoes, dress, handbag , watch, car, lawn, etc just green it.

                                            

Black and White…together at last

It’s a great day in fashion for politics, now that black and white can hang together on a dress, or a handbag or on a shoe without looking like a Zebra or being limited to 2-tone jazz theme.  Chanel is an inspiration on this (Dankse Karl!).  Just don’t go too monochrome, we might mistake you for a wall!

                                                     

Toned Down Colour Block

Okay I'm now satisfied with the brightness of colour blocking; and do believe as South African s we took advantage to potentialize on our traditional gears on our daily wear the day colour blocking was stamped as acceptable everyday!  Now as we move into Winter 2013 you are allowed to colour block; just with muted shades.  Think of berries, tans, pastels, etc.

                                                

Till Next time in fashion.

Brigette

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beccamulwa.blogspot.com
world wide web; Grazia Iss.25

Case of the Hairline

Whether we like it or not the hairline has taken the front seat in our lives.  The hairline, something which has never been a concern for most people for decades is now a fact on list of ‘The perfect woman’.  OK maybe not the perfect woman; but I can say you feel the same way about a residing hairline as a too tight too short dress on a size 40 woman.  Men, on the other hand have been experiencing this little dilemma for years; not all but most.  Balding is genetic for some men; and some manage to actually pull it off with class.  Women do not have this option; a residing hairline is a residing hairline; and it is not tasteful on a woman.

 Personally I was born with a very resided hairline; my hair started well in the middle of my head.  Through out primary and secondary school this created the illusion that I had an enormous head and looked more like a boy than a girl.  I never tried to hide it though; I walked around and hoped people would meet my heart before my head! 

 Thankfully to the graceful maker of all things my hairline decided to cover the patch left out at birth as the years compounded.  My fore hare is very soft; delicate and sensitive.  I didn’t know this until it was too late.  This was after my gorgeous long thin twist braids; which I had on for 3months.  They started falling out 1 by 1; from the outskirts of my head; and in that process balding these locations.  I was so traumatised I jumped straight into an action plan to recover my coveted hairline.  These are the steps I took:

 1.        Opted for a weave with a bang/fringe.  A friend once told me hair grows under heat; plus this covered the mowed   fields.

2.       Refrained from adding straightening chemicals to my hair.  OK I have been doing this for 9years now, but it’s a good tip.

3.       I applied all known and trusted hair growth oils (Damatol, Virgin, etc).

4.       Washed the weave regularly; and kept it moist with spray.

5.       Kept the weave longer than normal (which is 2 - 4 weeks for me). 

6.       Drank more water, stressed less and laughed more.

 I do not want to name this little situation; or classify it into a certain category of conditions caused by stress, bad diet, etc.  I believe once we give it a name; it becomes too real; then people stress more and worsen the little situation.  All I have learned is to treat my hairline with more compassion, give it some time to breath (yes rocking it all natural for 1-2weeks), support it with moisture/growth chemicals and relax.   There is hope.

Spring Alert!

There is something about the 1st September that makes a person want to change their wardrobe, get a new hairstyle, change their drink or travel somewhere.  In true South Africa tradition its braai every Friday and Saturday; someone's birthday; picnic here and there; weddings; etc Very exciting times for those of us who thrive under pressure; but still make time for fashion!

I have frequented the malls about 3 times in the past 2 weeks; something peculiar as I do not have love for them at all.  No, its not the retail stores...its the other beings present there.  Oh if only I was a Swazi queen so I could have an entire shopping centre shut down for me!  Apart from that minor concern, I had a lovely time at these huge building housing huge amounts of fashion and food. 

I am excited by what the buyers are doing for spring and summer; each store is uber inviting and exciting.  The competition as to where I should spend my last R500 has become so stressful I'm developing sweat hills on my forehead.  Is it a pair of wedges? Or those lovely shades in  that frame? Or maybe that little coral dress? Wait or a gift for someones birthday?  The hill has just become a mountain.

Wedges - If you weren't aware like someone very close to me...wedges are in and I'm thinking they will transform into winter 2013 too! I'm personally loving the mint, coral and wood combinations (My faves at Aldo or Foschini); mmmmmmmmmm tastes like sorbet! They are beautiful; and comfortable. I do wish though I was a size 4 or less; because these statement wedges look like murder weapons in larger sizes; thankfully most are not made of oak trees...because then we would all develop ankle injuries!

Coral and Mint, along with their lovely friends citrus family(orange-yellow-red-berry) and contrasting cousins green, cobalt and maybe a bit of tan are so trending right now.  If it were high school they would be the new cool kids.  Coral(that guava but pink but not really colour) is such a lovely shade on dark skin shades; coupled with green/tan...you are a winner! I cannot even start to tell you about what all these stores are doing with these colours; you have to experience it yourself.  Go buy it, you wont regret it; I mean you might starve or bunk work since petrol has gone up again! But it will be worth it.

Also te be notified, longer length (only at the back) dresses, skirts, shirts, tees, etc are so in and absolutely cute.  Get yourself one (Cotton On has amazing styles!).  Ofcourse you will get looks from people who think they resemble tails, or some other arb item that only exists in their minds! I personally have 2 items so far and am planning to invest more.

I didn't discriminate on my shopping travels; I went to every shop that looked like it wanted to rob me of my last bank notes.  Yes including those 'hip hop' inspired shops owned by our 'brodas n sistos' from the north!  This is where I found my mint and black jacket; in Pretoria to be exact; plus a cute lovely pleased chiffon dress I think I'm about to abuse until winter.  That's the amazing fact about fashion; don't underestimate the range (only the quality and price ofcourse) of big/small shops; go in, give them a chance and enjoy the surprise.

Ta,
Budgie

another city

Travelling to Cape Town after what seems like forever felt like a new experience.  The city, harbour and people seemed new; possibly because I was looking at it all through a buyers view.  

Every city has its own energy; and its own attitude.  In Cape Town I got the feeling people are really free.  I also am not sure if the people there work at all; or if they do 8hrs everyday in a office somewhere like other provinces in the country.  People seem to just do as they wish when they want to; everything is super slow and super laid back.

My question ‘what do people do in this city’ was graced with ‘we dine and wine’.  And that is really what they do.  The amount of restaurants in the city is appalling; and the majority with great menus.  Then you have the pubs, the beach spots, and ofcourse food markets.

As usual, I had all my energy on the fashion all around me.  In Cape Town women(and men) get away with a lot in fashion.  There is a feeling of freedom; a feeling of wear whatever you want everyday.  I have never seen people dress with so much freedom and expression.  The ensembles would definitely get judged, criticised and gawked at in other cities (like Johannesburg except in Melville and Newtown).  

In Cape Town all looks are acceptable; from hippie to glam; all races do everything; no barriers at all.  This explains why Cape Town is really the country’s fashion hub when it comes to trends, buying and fashion education.  It is the possibility I dream of for all other cities.

first winter knock

Now that winter is knocking, we can pack away the 'almost not there' outfits and bring out the boots.  Winter is the best season in my opinion because we ge to layer, cover the 'not necessary to be seen'  and are allowed to eat as much as we want!  Also it is the season of coats, boots, socks, scarves, gloves, hugs and cuddling.  So what are we excited about this winter?

NAVY

...must be the new black, except you can wear it with black!!! It has that relaxed but supreme atmosphere about it; like Im ok in my skin (and clothes) but I can flaunt them just so you dont miss them.  Today, thanks to new trends you find every fashionable item in navy: shoes, coats, dresses, bags, earrrings, belts, etc.  Navy is everywhere without looking nautical or 'Pick'nPay uniformy'.  If you have been thinking about it, its a yes: you can buy the navy leggins, the navy boots, that navy handbag....actually anything in that family is acceptable.

GREY-BUT-TAUPE

Not quite sure what to call this colour but its there; its fresh and lovely absolutely lovely darling.  Please refer to the ruched boot right in the middle of the image above.  It has that Urban store look; but comes in almost everything; and goes with everything.  Think of it as the new grey, BUT grey is still the alive in all shades.  

LAYERING

Aah the art of wearing multiple pieces and giving off a 'Im together' look.  Think of vests, skin tight tees, scarves, shirts, leggings, leg warmers, gloves and hats.  These are the accessories of winter and Layering is the manner in which they are put together.  The other advantage here is that you can play with colours; let the navy peep here; but the the black is the focal point with taupe boots and a navy scarf! Ta-da!

TAN-TO-NUDE

Tan equals leather...ok atleast leather look alike.  Whoever thought any brown family could be such a hit.  Tan is a naughty colour as it flows from summer to winter without difficulty.  Think of tan sandals, summer boots and waist belts; now in winter think of rider boots, calf boots, tan gloves, tan trench coats, etc.  It has the ability to make a summer dress flirty and a winter outfit retro but yet pretty.  So tan on girls and boys, tan on!

WEDGES

Yes that high wedge pump was a great investment; and now you can wear it in winter too!!!  Personally Im excited about wedge boots; in all inches, colours, fabrics, embellishments, etc. Wedge wedge wedge.  They are comfortable; sexy without the bunions and soooo wintery for all winter outfits. 

WARM FABRICS

Hmmmmmmm wool, suade, velvet (in small amounts), wovens, tartan, houndstooth, etc and all their cousins and second cousins.  The core of winter is a bowl of stew and a blanket.  Winter is a cold season (Lunch Bar!); the goal is not to freeze to death.  So please dont think its ok to walk around in your mesh dress outside in the middle of June with sandals; one word PNEUMONIA! So make friends with all these lovely warm clothes.

SATCHELS

Yes yes yes with navy, tan and nudes the satchel has to be invited to the party.  They are not sexist at all; they love both women and men.  Stunnigly structured; looking very shool boy/girl with some level of maturity.  Not too big not too small; and ever so detailed! Pssssst ladies...there is a great one at a South African retailer with he word 'wool' in their name...very affordable too.

COATS

Girls and Boys coats are a must; atleast one; especially if you live in JHB(also CPT).  This place can get really cold.  Invest in colours that will stand the test of time like black, red, grey, navy and brown; and then add something exciting by purchasing a printed fabric or a 'wow' colour.  Coats last for season after season after season...look you can leave them for your grandkids.

BOOTS FOR BOYS

Whether short, mid or high; formal or sneakers...love love love them.  In grey, black, roughed, washed, rock, formal, boys are allowed to have boots too.  They can be hidden under the pants or worn over jeans (mmmmmmmmmm) with a coat and scarf and open gloves and a cute woolen hat with a coffee in one hand and....ok ok ok Im trailing off but you get the look.  Its a yes!

LAST WORD

Now friends just because its winter it doesnt mean you must stay indoors permanently; eat too much and forget the shower's location. NO.  Girls it doesnt mean its ok to have terrible toes and hairy armpits(and other areas). NO.  It also doesnt mean you can take 3days off work every month because 'you have the flu'. NO. BUT it is ok to find yourself involved in a winter fling; I mean it can get sooo cold *wink*

Ta

Budgie

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Lunch Bar =  Obvious

old favors new

Everyone has some kind of style; some of us know and some are totally unaware; and in that closet of yours you have that 1 item that is your utmost favourite.  You know that thing that you wear atleast for 9months of the year; your friends give you the 'that thing again' look everytime you put it on but you dont care; and it has some meaning to your life; like the following items from people I know:

Nomfundo Shezi - bought at Woolies in Bloemfontein.

Daphne Sanderson - Franc Ellis R950...great tailoring.

Mmammotsa Makhene in a floral dress I personally LOVE!



Brigette Mashile - created by Nomusa Nkabinde in 2006.



Tan leather satchel.

Sam Vlok - from Ninewest love them.

Nompumelelo Khumalo gliteratti from 'some Shop at Maphonya'.

Mmamotsa Makhene- pleated colourful mini with amazing accessories.

Shell earrings from a market in Bots.